Friday, January 27, 2012

{ Friday Favorites - #4 }


If you have something special you would like to show, if you have a trinket which has a special meaning for you or maybe something you have just found and own or would like to have. It could be anything, a trinket, a book, a new cookware set, a necklace, a photograph, a project you're working on or finished....anything that you love and would like to show us all.

Take a photo, or two, or it on your blog and come back and link up using Mr Linky.

Please only include links directly to your post and only those pertaining to Friday Favorites. Anything not related WILL be removed.


I've shown you a few things already but today's is really one of my favorites, because the items I'm showing you make my house a home.


These crochet doilies are ones which I brought with me from South Africa when I got married.  I actually started collecting them when I was a teenager because I wanted to have as many as my stepmother did.  I just loved how she had them all over the home, in corners here and there.


I've talked about how my greatgrandmother was a big influence on my cooking, how my grandmother was a big influence on my sewing, but the one woman who was the biggest influence in homemaking and everything that went into it, was my stepmom Nela.  :)


She is the reason I Menu Plan, she is the reason my grocery lists still look like a carbon copy of hers, she's the reason I know how to do paperwork, how to make a budget, how to pay bills, how to take care of a home and what to clean and when.
I truly have been blessed to have been raised among strong amazing women.


Everytime I walk by one of these doilies I think of her, and I think of home and as much as it hurts that I'm so far from everyone, it does help in a way, it makes me feel just a little closer.

I know many people don't particularly like doilies, they find them old fashioned, but for me, they give a personal touch, they really do say "Home Sweet Home".


Anonymous said...

Sandra, your collection of doilies is wonderful. They sure do give a house a homey feel. Sorry you have to be so far away from your family in South Africa but we are glad that you are here.


Miss Jenna said...

I love doilies! I don't collect them, but I have quite a few as well.
You're lucky to have had a strong role model to teach you all of these handy things. My mother preferred to do everything herself so now as an adult I often find myself lost on many household tasks-especially cooking & menu planning! Though as a result I plan on making sure my children are well taught on all matters before they become adults.

Kara said...

I only have one doily, my mom passed it on to me when I got married. It was made by my grandma who passed away about 5 years ago. Unfortunately something red got spilled on one edge of it and no matter what I do to try cleaning it there is still a pink stain. :( I wish I could get the stain out because I loved having it out on my kitchen table.

Renate said...

Sandra, I have all the doilies my mother crocheted. I treasure them so much now that she is gone. I also have all her afghans she made. When I'm missing her I snuggle under one and it is like she is hugging me. Hope everyone gets better. Renate

Susan said...

I so agree with your beautiful post about your stepmom and the dollies. I love frilly, lacey things in my home, too.

Kristy said...

I love the pictures of your home. Thanks for sharing!

Carol said...

Love the doilies! I have them all over my house too (like my mom). I so enjoy this feature. Next week I'll be on the ball and participate!

Anita Philipps said...

I remember my grandma having doilies around her house too. I don't have any now. But I'm sure I will at some point.

Create With Joy said...

Dear Sandra

Thanks for sharing your lovelies and thanks for hosting this linky!

I'd like to invite you to the two new parties I am hosting this year - Inspire Me Monday and Friendship Friday. Each has a different slant - I hope you'll stop by and check them out!

Have a blessed weekend!


Kay Rivera said...

I just want to tell you how big a fan I am of your blog. I hope you keep posting. My secret biggest dream is to be a homemaker, so I love how you put so much effort into keeping your home beautiful and filled with good smells, good sounds, good food. I want to try a lot of your recipes. I also wish I were as skilled (with my hands and with the camera) as you are! Keep posting! :)

Mari said...

Those are treasures! I love that you have them out. I have one doily from my step-grandma and it's a treasure too!