
It's been a busy and interesting week around here. We've had some issues at the kids schools, for the most part it's a wonderful public school with very attentive and wonderful teachers, but I think that sometimes even the best schools can have their meltdowns, their little "no no's".
My biggest pet peeve is when I see children insulting each other and saying things that make me wonder "just what are you learning at home?". Look, I'm not perfect and neither are my kids, but I like to think that my husband and I have instilled in them morals and values and respect for other human beings, my children are respectful and considerate of others and would never say hurtful things.....and by that I mean, the kind of talk that makes you cringe, makes you think why a young girl/boy would EVER say something like that and think it's acceptable....
Take yesterday for example, I picked up the kids from school and I could tell that Jasmine was upset. When I asked her what happened, she said that one of the girls in her class.....fourth grade, mind you.....told her and her friend to "shut up or I will bash a hole through your teeth". Excuse me?!?!?!
As a parent do you let it go or do you do something about it? Because the way I see it, my children rely on my husband and I to keep them safe and to watch out for their best interests. So, as soon as we got home, I shot off an email to her teacher, explained the situation and told her in no uncertain terms that my daughter is NOT used to that kind of language and that I expect the other girl to apologize for what she said and that if the teacher doesn't take care of it, then I will step in and personally contact her parents.
A little bit pushy? Maybe. But I don't think so, I think that if we let these small things go, they will quickly escalate from a "bash a hole through your teeth" to something more serious.
Anyway, the teacher was very cooperative and understanding and informed me that she would be talking to the girl and her parents.

So, onto other things, there seems to be more colds and sniffles going around, a couple of kids at school have been sick at home AGAIN. So when I picked up Nicholas from school yesterday and he was running a low grade fever, coughing, runny nose and congested, I thought....NOT AGAIN!
But, last night I did the Vicks thing on the feet again.....I had heard about it before and I had done it but I didn't use the socks and now I believe that is what makes the difference. I rubbed both his feet with tons of Vicks, put on some nice warm socks and tucked him into bed. NO meds for the low grade fever, I'm tired of pumping medicine into their little bodies, unless the fever is extremely high, I don't want to resort to medicine. Anyway, within 30 minutes he was sweating, and I mean SWEATING. He must have sweated out all the bad stuff, because he woke up this morning 100% better, what a change, it's like night and day. So if you've never tried the Vicks trick...do it!

What else is going on? Oh, I got my laptop back, finally. They had to replace the power cord and the hard drive, on a laptop that was a month old. Thankfully it's under warranty. It feels good to have my own computer back, I don't mind using Curt's but you know how it is, when it's someone else's you're always worried you may break something.
I'm also working on some Crocheted Kitchen Towel holders, they work up really fast and I love their look hanging from the Oven door. With kids, they tend to wipe their hands and then the towels end up on the floor, this way, they're going nowhere.
I'll be having a little giveaway next week with some of the crochet things I've made, so if you like the cupcakes, donuts, easter eggs etc....be sure to keep an eye out for those.
I thought it would be fun to end this post with something I always used to do when I first started blogging, it kind of rounds up the day for me and helps me keep track of what I'm doing.
WHAT I'M COOKING:
Lunch will probably just be Grilled Cheese sandwiches.
Dinner is Crockpot BBQ Pulled Pork. Extremely easy to make and the kids love it.
WHAT I'M WATCHING:
The Wings of the Dove from Netflix
Farmhouse
Most Haunted
WHAT I'M DOING:
Laundry
Making flubber with the kids after school
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I can't wait to see the photos of the flubber! I don't have any small ones to try it with at the moment, but my time will come! Have a lovely weekend, Sandra.
I love the Vicks idea and will certainly remember that if Sophia is ever ill. I am so excited about your giveway - I am hopeless in the knitting, crocheting and sewing department so the possibility of winning one of your works of art is really something to look forward to.
Have a great weekend.
I would also encourage your daughter to report these types of incidents (immediately) to her teacher, playground monitor, etc. as it is NOT tattling. Bullying cannot be stopped if adults are unaware...and you are correct...it is your job as a parent (and mine as a classroom teacher) to STOP bullying in it's tracks! Aggressive behavior is never okay!
I hope that the district and building where your children attend school provide an atmosphere where student safety is a priority and parents are welcomed to be their child's first advocate! (All right, I'll stop...can you tell I am passionate about bully-prevention?!!!)
As always, I enjoy reading your blog, espcially for wonder recipes and crafting ideas!
Blessings to you from Kansas,
Valerie
I recently had an experience like this with my 2nd grader, she was being bullied by a girl on her bus who was in 6th grade. I went to the Teacher, who went to the Principal. The girl was threatened with suspension and now is very cordial to my daughter. I think its always best to make sure that everyone is aware of the situation before it gets out of hand. The week after this incident there were say no to bullying signs all over the elementary.
glad you got your laptop back..Food sounds delich as usual..
It's awful that kids that young (4th grade) say such terrible things. You did the right thing. The teacher needs to know it's going on.
I have tried the vicks and I agree it works great!
Have a great weekend!
I need to know what is flubber???
I do enjoy the towels I have bought with the tops already done. They are not how I would make them, but still I enjoy them.
BTW I was wondering if that Vicks thing on the soles of the feet works. Thanks for letting us know that it does. I'll have to let my daughter and granddaughter know, for the next time their kids get sick.
I would love to win one of your projects, I am sewing challenged. I will definitely keep my eye open for the giveaway.
I hope you have a great weekend!
I don't do parents anymore. I go straight to the school - and outside of school I go straight to the cops.
Have A Spectacular Saturday
From Roberta Anne
"The Raggedy Girl"
Good for you for having the gumption to stick up for your children and do something about the situation right away. Bullying should never, ever be tolerated. You've sent a very clear message to the teacher and school and hopefully this girl and her parents.
Those were some harsh and threatening words stated to Jasmine. You've shown her by example a wonderful way to handle a difficult situation, to respect and stand up for herself, as well as to say "no" to bullying. Way to go!!
Have a wonderful weekend and have fun with making flubber. I bet the kids really enjoy that!
I was talking to a friend who is a second grade teacher and I could not believe some of the things some of her "problem" kids did and said...especially in 2nd grade.
I've been talking through things with my oldest. She's not into drama, and a few times has had some friends tease her about liking a certain boy and it irritates her so much especially because she could care less about "relationships".
Also, I live in Az. and as one who used to brown and not burn, I must warn you of sun poisoning. It will change your skin and your lifestyle. Use sunscreen and a hat always!!